Paul Zar, 78, passed away on August 5, 2025, surrounded by his loved ones. Born in Mexico City, Mexico, and raised in Jackson Heights, N.Y., he lived in Rye for the past 30 years.
Paul is survived by his wife, Lois; sons, Paul, Peter (Peyton), and Matt; daughter, Jacqueline Varona (Hector); and grandchildren, Isabella and Jake. He is also survived by his sister, Diana Simone (Andres), and nephew, Bill. Paul was a beloved brother-in-law to Lois’ family. He cherished his children and grandchildren, and his love for them defined his life.
A Fordham University graduate, Paul started his career as an educator before transitioning to the travel industry. Paul enjoyed a long career as an executive specializing in Caribbean marketing at American Airlines, the Bermuda Department of Tourism, Travel Impressions, and ALG.
Paul was a long-distance runner. When he discovered running, it transformed his life, and for over 40 years he ran most mornings at dawn. During this time, he completed over 20 marathons, including New York City, Boston, and Napa Valley. He also volunteered with the New York Road Runners’ Achilles Club, running with blind runners in New York marathons.
In recent years, Paul transitioned from distance running to long walks. During his walks, he enjoyed chatting with his friends and sharing treats with his canine friends in the park and along the boardwalk near his home. Paul took great pleasure in his morning coffee, long walks, daily calls and texts with family and friends, reading, writing, and watching the Yankees.
Paul was selfless in a way that is uncommon. He possessed a rare kindness and gentle soul, always putting others first, and always seeking to learn about the people he met. He was wise, intelligent, and witty. He loved jokes and making others laugh. He touched many lives, and his family feels so fortunate to have called him their own. Paul’s love and devotion will be missed every day.
Donations can be made in Paul’s name to the Don Bosco Community Center of Port Chester N.Y., where he volunteered teaching English as a second language.
