Once my siblings and I had children, my mom had a new take on Mother’s Day.
Instead of insisting we all get together for a traditional family brunch, she’d say, “Let’s take the day off! You all work too much.”
And we’d stay home.
I appreciated her initiative — as a mom of young kids, the idea of lingering in my pajamas, resting, and planting a few flowers was almost heaven to me.
My mom really got me.
She also knew that Mother’s Day is not always about big, expensive gestures or picture-perfect plans. It’s about feeling seen and appreciated — and maybe getting a break from the dishwasher and the laundry. So here are a few tips to make the moms in your life feel seen and loved:
-Lighten her load (of dishes and laundry):
-No need to clean the whole house, just be sure all the dishes and laundry are washed by the end of the day.
-The Gift of Time (Alone or Together): Some moms want to be surrounded by family. Others want a few hours of glorious silence. Ask what she really wants — and then try to deliver.
-Food = Love:
Whether it’s breakfast in bed, her favorite takeout, or a reservation somewhere, the way to Mom’s heart often involves keeping her out of the kitchen. Laughter: Pull out some old photos and laugh at the hairstyles, the chaos, and the love over the years.
Words Over Wallets: A heartfelt hand-written card, drawing, or a note from each family member can be the most meaningful gift of all.
Mother’s Day isn’t about perfection — it’s about connection. Do what feels right for you and your crew. And if all else fails, just say, “Thank you, Mom. You’re Ryemarkable.”
Liz Woods is the founder of Ryemarkable Moms.
