Richard Joseph Barber Jr., Esq., affectionately known as Dick, passed away on Dec. 11, 2025, at White Plains Hospital. A remarkable man, pillar of the community, and devoted family man, Dick’s journey was marked by dedication, service, and an unwavering commitment to the betterment of those around him.
Dick was born on Oct. 27, 1940, in United Hospital in Port Chester, N.Y. He graduated from Archbishop Stepinac High School before going on to St. Michael’s College in Vt., followed by St. John’s Law School, where Dick honed his sharp intellect and developed the foundation for what would be a distinguished six-decade career in law.
Beyond the courtroom, Dick was a successful businessman, owning establishments such as the Coachman and Harbor Marine, which served as testaments to his entrepreneurial spirit and business acumen.
Dick’s contributions to society were not limited to his professional endeavors. He proudly served his country as a member of the U.S. Marine Corps, a period of his life that shaped much of his character and instilled in him a profound sense of duty.
Dick’s dedication to safety and service was further exemplified through his attainment of numerous degrees and certifications in New York State Firefighting and Hazmat, ensuring his community remained a safer place for all for over 60 years.
Left to cherish his memory are his beloved wife, Marilyn (nee Jaeger), whom he married on March 23, 1979; his son, Richard Barber III, daughter-in-law, Elaine, and their son, Richard IV; as well as his daughter, Deborah Rees and her children, Nicole and Kimberly.
Dick also leaves behind his siblings, Patricia Spacavento, Marylou Harvey, and Joan Syp. He is predeceased by his brother, Thomas Barber. Dick was the son of the late Richard Barber Sr. and late Frances (nee Magnus) Barber, and his legacy will be felt not only by his family but by the countless lives he touched.
The family will receive friends from 4 to 8 p.m. Monday, Dec. 15, at the Graham Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Tuesday, Dec. 16, at the Church of the Resurrection. Interment will follow at Greenwood Union Cemetery.
